I was reading an article the other day about lesbian parties, the article likened lesbian parties to those of “American frat house parties” , those wild drunken parties where a copious amount of alcohol is poured down a person’s throat or the active participation of a ritual called “body shots” is performed.
According to the online dictionaries, the definition of a “body Shot” is:
body shot
A body shot is a sexual way of doing shots of tequila. Your lime is held in your partner's mouth and the salt put on a body part (stomach, neck, breasts, etc) You lick the salt off of them, take your shot and then eat the lime out of their mouth.
body shot
Body or belly shots can break the ice quite quickly in a bar or at a party. The most common shot is tequila because this involves licking some salt off the holder of the shot first and then taking the lime wedge from this persons mouth afterwards. Any shot will do, however. The key to this type of shot is that there are two consenting adults involved.
Female places shot between her breasts or lies on the bar and places it in her navel.
Body shot
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A body shot is a shot of alcohol (such as tequila) that is consumed off a person's body, usually from erogenous zones such as the navel or the breasts.
Rum cream is also considered an ideal liquor for body shots. Rum cream, a Jamaican original, has the consistency of Bailey's Irish Cream, therefore lingering in the erogenous areas longer before "running south," enabling a longer licking time.
In one version of the body shot, the person taking the shot holds a shot glass of tequila in one hand, while the person giving the shot holds a wedge of lime (or lemon) in his or her mouth. The person taking the shot then licks a body part of his or her choosing on the person giving the shot, sprinkles salt on that body part, and then licks the salt off of the body part. He or she then downs the tequila and then takes the citrus wedge out of the subject's mouth using only his or her mouth.
Which brings me to my next opinions and observation.
Body shots when you are single and want to “get it on” with someone really cute at a party is a good idea. It breaks the ice. But what happens when you are at a party with a few friends and you or your partner want to participate. Do you draw the line? Do you discuss rules? Do you “go with the flow” , Is it a turn on, is it fun, is it a matter of peer pressure or do you leave your relationship open for all to participate in something that should be and can be quite intimate?
I went to a party recently and because I was quite sober decided to sit down and watch the going’s on as a voyeur.
As a voyeur I found it extremely erotic, exciting and a turn-on, but as someone in a “closed” relationship as opposed to an “open relationship” I would not feel comfortable watching my partner lying on that bar counter or table like a slab of meat while a bunch of drunk, horny lecherous lesbians lick tequila, lime and sugar off her neck, belly button and cleavage or any other erogenous zone that should be reserved for times of intimacy with me.
I watched as people whose partners, who usually don’t even allow an occasional threesomes, let the partner go out alone or allow someone else to flirt with them, participate in this seemingly ‘innocent’ game with friends.
I realize that some people call this jealousy, insecurity or perhaps I am somewhat of a “kill joy” and old fashioned to believe in some kind of sanctity and trust between partners, and that there should be some kind of boundaries among friends. I do also realize that there are different rules for different relationships depending on people you are with. This is only my personal opinion and I know there are a lot of womyn out there who use this as foreplay.
To bring you back to my initial thoughts on whether lesbian parties are like American frat house parties, yes they are very similar and it is your choice as to what you want out of these parties and what you get out of these parties they are truly not for the feint hearted, or the judge mental types.
According to the online dictionaries, the definition of a “body Shot” is:
body shot
A body shot is a sexual way of doing shots of tequila. Your lime is held in your partner's mouth and the salt put on a body part (stomach, neck, breasts, etc) You lick the salt off of them, take your shot and then eat the lime out of their mouth.
body shot
Body or belly shots can break the ice quite quickly in a bar or at a party. The most common shot is tequila because this involves licking some salt off the holder of the shot first and then taking the lime wedge from this persons mouth afterwards. Any shot will do, however. The key to this type of shot is that there are two consenting adults involved.
Female places shot between her breasts or lies on the bar and places it in her navel.
Body shot
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Jump to: navigation, search
A body shot is a shot of alcohol (such as tequila) that is consumed off a person's body, usually from erogenous zones such as the navel or the breasts.
Rum cream is also considered an ideal liquor for body shots. Rum cream, a Jamaican original, has the consistency of Bailey's Irish Cream, therefore lingering in the erogenous areas longer before "running south," enabling a longer licking time.
In one version of the body shot, the person taking the shot holds a shot glass of tequila in one hand, while the person giving the shot holds a wedge of lime (or lemon) in his or her mouth. The person taking the shot then licks a body part of his or her choosing on the person giving the shot, sprinkles salt on that body part, and then licks the salt off of the body part. He or she then downs the tequila and then takes the citrus wedge out of the subject's mouth using only his or her mouth.
Which brings me to my next opinions and observation.
Body shots when you are single and want to “get it on” with someone really cute at a party is a good idea. It breaks the ice. But what happens when you are at a party with a few friends and you or your partner want to participate. Do you draw the line? Do you discuss rules? Do you “go with the flow” , Is it a turn on, is it fun, is it a matter of peer pressure or do you leave your relationship open for all to participate in something that should be and can be quite intimate?
I went to a party recently and because I was quite sober decided to sit down and watch the going’s on as a voyeur.
As a voyeur I found it extremely erotic, exciting and a turn-on, but as someone in a “closed” relationship as opposed to an “open relationship” I would not feel comfortable watching my partner lying on that bar counter or table like a slab of meat while a bunch of drunk, horny lecherous lesbians lick tequila, lime and sugar off her neck, belly button and cleavage or any other erogenous zone that should be reserved for times of intimacy with me.
I watched as people whose partners, who usually don’t even allow an occasional threesomes, let the partner go out alone or allow someone else to flirt with them, participate in this seemingly ‘innocent’ game with friends.
I realize that some people call this jealousy, insecurity or perhaps I am somewhat of a “kill joy” and old fashioned to believe in some kind of sanctity and trust between partners, and that there should be some kind of boundaries among friends. I do also realize that there are different rules for different relationships depending on people you are with. This is only my personal opinion and I know there are a lot of womyn out there who use this as foreplay.
To bring you back to my initial thoughts on whether lesbian parties are like American frat house parties, yes they are very similar and it is your choice as to what you want out of these parties and what you get out of these parties they are truly not for the feint hearted, or the judge mental types.
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