Where do lesbians meet other lesbians?

A question on most of our lips whether gay, straight, bi, single or a couple.

Where do you meet people to make friends or meet new potential lovers.

Here are a few places I have picked up along the way:

For the anti clubbing, anti drugs, smoking and other habits that some of us enjoy:

1. Sports events or start a sport you enjoy, Gyms are good but its mostly a gay male pick up place and people normally like gyming alone listening to an ipod, a better idea would be to join an aerobics class or a team sport for example cricket, soccer, rugby or a martial art. Whether you join in or simply go watch on the sidelines.

2. Hiking, camping, mountain biking, fishing, abseiling and some extreme sports are also a definate bet perhaps do an internet search for some lesbian clubs or get togethers of this nature.

3. Religious / Esoteric - Spiritual centres, one can always find out which centres accept and welcome lesbians.

4. Political organisations, fighting for yours and others rights, finding that special person with as much passion as you have.

5. Other clubs such as book clubs, or perhaps create your own movement, club or party.

General places that involve the bad / fun habbits depending on your perspective:

1. Night Clubs / pubs / bars - perhaps for that perfect 1 night stand.

2. The once a month party - which most cities usually advertise

other:

1. The internet - sites like datingbuzz.co.za ; q.co.za; facebook.com and many many more - there are rules to dating and meeting people off a site so do be careful and be aware.

2. Friends or friends of ex's or ex's of friends etc - even straight friends are a wonderful resource and love trying to match us lesbians up.

3. Owning a cute dog is also a plus and taking them for a walk in the park or for training, should catch you at least some attention.

Whatever you choose, have fun, relax and just be yourself - Ms Right or Ms Right Now should pop into your life when you least expect it!