I watched the movie “He’s is just not that into you” and I began wondering, what are the signs for the girls? What are lesbian signals for “She is just not that into you”!
Here are a few of my own:
“She likes you, as a friend”
do we look like we date for our health? If we wanted more friends we would not have asked her out, how many times have you heard the words “lets just be FRIENDS”?
“She tries to set you up with another woman”
This is to make sure that you don’t hit on her or alternatively it didn’t occur to her to want to date you! By the way this still puts you in the “friend” category.
“she doesn’t laugh at your jokes”
Either she doesn’t find your sense of humour funny or perhaps she doesn’t like you enough to pretend that your humour is funny!
“She cancels plans or is vague about them”
If she really wanted to see you she would see you, she would cancel her other plans. The vagueness implies that perhaps she is waiting for something, sorry, better to come up.
“you are always the one calling her, she is never the one calling you, she never returns emails or text messages or voicemails”
She isn’t that into you, woman love communication especially telephones! (well generally we do) its obvious that keeping in touch with you or getting together with you is not that important, how many times has this girl said that she forgot, or that she was busy and you bump into her on the night she told you she was busy?
Here is a rule, if she doesn’t return your first call she might be playing hard to get, call her a second time if she doesn’t return that call she is JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!
“Body language”
If the girl doesn’t make eye contact for more than 3 seconds, or perhaps moves closer to your proximity or makes an excuse to touch you, either she is shy or she JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU! especially if you try move closer to speak and she makes excuses, talks to other people moves away or uses her friends as barriers to protect her from you.
“ I am not ready for a relationship”
Usually means “ I am really don’t do relationships” “I am still getting over my ex” or very often it means “ I DON’T WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU!”
“She mentions other girls or girls she is attracted to”
And none of these girls are you or remotely resemble what you look like. Could mean that are really not her type.
“She is a complete flirt”
Constantly flirting with other women in front of you is just rude even if you are just a date. It’s shows a lack of respect for you! she obviously doesn’t think that you are worth flirting with. Move on girl!
“She keeps her place private”
some women are more private than others. She might have a strong sense of personal space and needs more time before allowing you alone in her apartment. On the other hand, if you've been dating for a year or two and she still won't let you stay there alone, I'd say she's hiding something.
“she hangs around with her ex more than she hangs around with you”
Yes, I know that some girls befriend their exes and we all have best friends but when you are dating someone that you are really into, the honeymoon period does set in and friends do take a back seat.
These are generalizations, my advice would be to listen to your gut! And have some self love, there are plenty women out there who are just waiting for that right girl to walk into their lives who will love you and cherish you just as you are!
